First Dates: What Not To Do, In Order To Attract Women. - An Excellent Guide To Learn More

Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I frequently get queries about how to attract women, or what to do in order to attract women.

A typical concern that men have is ways to avoid making those critical errors on the first date that avoids ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship).

I'll discuss a number of them in this article.

Well, there are several mistakes a guy can make. I want to summarize the most common ones here.

The most significant mistakes guys make on first dates are:

1) Talking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting instead of interested.

2) Not asking questions and not listening enough.

3) Focusing a lot on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.

4) Not using subtleties enough (What a woman understands)

5) Not establishing sexual flow or interest.

6) Not creating future. (A relationship depends upon future.)

The initial mistake that most guys make is that they go on the first date and talk all about themselves, sort of strut around telling the girl that he's got this car, and he's got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that attempting to impress the girl that he is a good catch.

What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that is not going to be able to look after her at all, because he is not interested in her and doesn't listen to what she has to state. Not a good relationship prospect.

One other way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they should be interesting for a girl to be thinking about them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You have to be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It is hilarious! They're both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be considering another.

If you don't know what I am discussing, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is interested in you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she is, and so on, and all kinds of other interesting factors.

Interesting leads to many rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls will be friends with a guy who is really interesting. Why? Girls like to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are sort of like children to them. An origin of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.

That's all we have room to discuss about here, but you will get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.

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